Online SafetyCritical

Online Grooming Behaviors

Predators build trust with children over time, often by offering gifts, attention, or sympathy, with the goal of exploiting them.

Why This Matters

Grooming is a gradual process that can lead to sexual exploitation, abuse, or abduction. Predators are skilled at manipulating children and exploiting their need for attention and validation.

Signs to Look For

  • 1Adults acting overly interested in a child's life and feelings
  • 2Offering free Robux, items, or "help" to build trust
  • 3Asking to play privately or one-on-one
  • 4Asking about appearance, clothing, or personal life
  • 5Trying to establish secrecy: "don't tell your parents"
  • 6Moving conversations to unmonitored platforms
  • 7Requesting photos or video calls

What Parents Should Do

  • Have regular conversations about online friends
  • Teach: Adults should not have close friendships with children online
  • Watch for secrecy - kids hiding screens, changing windows when you approach
  • Be concerned if "online friends" know too much personal info
  • Report suspicious behavior to Roblox and authorities if needed
  • Consider parental monitoring software for high-risk situations

How to Talk About It

Use these conversation starters to discuss this topic with your child:

  • 💬Who are your closest friends on Roblox? How old are they?
  • 💬Has anyone ever given you free stuff? What did they want in return?
  • 💬Do you ever feel like you need to keep secrets from me about online stuff?
  • 💬You can always tell me anything - I won't get mad at you.

Related Roblox Settings

Check these settings in your child's Roblox account:

Account RestrictionsWho can add as friend (Everyone vs. No one)

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